What if the most important business lesson isn’t found in strategy books or leadership seminars, but in rethinking how we prioritize our lives? Recently, a conversation with a young, driven entrepreneur reminded me of this truth. He was battling burnout, frustrated that his energy and passion were fading. I asked him a simple but profound question: “Are you prioritizing your life using the Life Hierarchy?”
He paused, intrigued, and admitted he’d never heard of it. I explained that the Life Hierarchy I’ve embraced places faith in a higher power at the top, followed by family, friends, and finally purpose. As I shared this, I realized how often we get it inverted—putting purpose first and neglecting the foundation that sustains us. His sigh of relief was palpable, and so was mine.
This moment reinforced what I’ve learned from thinkers like Arthur Brooks: when faith anchors your life, everything else—family, friends, and purpose—falls into harmony. It’s not just a personal revelation; it’s a lesson every entrepreneur should embrace to build not just successful businesses but fulfilling lives.
Let’s start a conversation: How does your hierarchy look? Are you prioritizing what truly matters?
For years, I believed that purpose was the pinnacle of my life hierarchy. It guided my decisions, shaped my ambitions, and even defined how I provided for my family. Yet, recent readings and reflections have revealed I was approaching life’s priorities all wrong. Thanks to Arthur Brooks’ insights on happiness and Dr. Gabor Maté’s teachings on authenticity, I’ve come to understand that purpose is not the foundation—it’s the fourth pillar in a hierarchy that begins with faith, family, and friends.
The Shift in Perspective
Brooks emphasizes that true happiness stems from relationships and spiritual connection rather than external achievements. This resonated deeply as I realized my decade-long quest for spirituality wasn’t accidental but a profound course correction. Similarly, Dr. Maté’s work highlights how societal pressures often distract us from living authentically, prioritizing approval and career success over inner peace and relational fulfillment.
The True Life Hierarchy
The hierarchy of life, as outlined by happiness consultants and psychiatrists, places faith at the top—our connection to something greater than ourselves. Family follows as the cornerstone of love and support, with friends providing community and companionship. Only then comes purpose, which should serve as an extension of these foundational elements rather than overshadow them.
Lessons Learned
Reflecting on this framework has been humbling. My drive to solve cultural and environmental issues was fulfilling but also a “career smoke screen,” diverting me from nurturing faith and family. Purpose is meaningful only when rooted in the stability of faith and relationships.
Moving Forward
This realization isn’t about regret but growth. It’s a reminder to prioritize what truly matters: fostering spiritual connection, cherishing loved ones, and building authentic friendships. Purpose will naturally follow as a way to contribute meaningfully to the world.
What does your life hierarchy look like? Have you ever questioned whether your priorities align with your deepest values? Let’s explore this together—because sometimes, rethinking our foundations can lead to a life of greater joy and fulfillment.